Human Psyche

When I first decided my major coming out of high school, nursing was my field of choice. I began taking class after class until I finally finished all of the pre-requests and was ready to apply. I was in a conundrum of sorts because I was getting married and transferring up to BYU (where Doug was). It was at that point in my life I had to make a rash decision. I knew my average B's and very few A's were not even compatible and a long shot from what BYU nursing department accepted. (AKA if you don't have straight A's--don't bother). I was also in a time crunch. Doug was going to be applying to medical school and if I eventually got in, I wasn't going to stay to finish and be left behind. Since I already had two years of pre-nursing classes (biology, anatomy, etc) I chose the closest field that my credits would count towards. This happened to be a bachelors in psychology. I remember at first I thought, hey this could be interesting, the human mind, relationships, and learning about disorders. It was fun at first, and then just became a field of what ever it takes to finish! (I was 9 months pregnant when it was over) It isn't any secret that I didn't like school, but did it to accomplish the prize at the end---the diploma. I often look back and laugh because I don't think I have ever really applied the knowledge of my field of *expertise* in the past 10 years. I often said IF I could do it over, I would have chosen business as a major.

However, today I pulled out my human psychology knowledge. What do you know I actually DID learn something. It's interesting how the mind works and thinks, especially your psyche. Have you ever dressed yourself and then subconsciously dressed your child(ren) in the same colors without realizing? I have found myself many times matching my boys (which I am sure people think is a bit odd) And speaking of the subconscious just look what mine did today. I haven't pulled out these shorts in months, but it couldn't have described my mood more clearly. Black and blue? Seriously, isn't it interesting what your mind does?


good deed: called an old friend to chat.

Mental Imprints

Thanks for all sympathy concerns about the dog. I know things will work out. It would have been an outside dog (since I am a clean freak by nature). I couldn't bare looking at those painfully cute puppy dog eyes any longer on my blog. It reminded me of the cat on Shrek, when he would use his sad eyes to get his way. Anyways, I have taken a lot of mental notes this week. Really in no particular order just some to remember. Here are just a few tidbits.

*Apparently, this is new way my 2 year old smiles? The automatic cheese face. I gave up after several retakes.

*Luke is our anal child and prefers to line up his dominoes in rainbow order.

*I went to playgroup for the first time in weeks and it was actually quite enjoyable. For both me and the kids. I learned that I am not the only mom who has defiant children once in a while :)

self portrait shot of all the gals

*I heard my friend use the phrase "giddy up" when talking her kids. (instead of saying HURRY) I thought it was actually pretty funny. Hmm something I may copy.

*Having a Sonic card comes in handy when you have no cash. BUT disappointed they got rid of their .99 drinks before 11am @$@#$!

*Getting upset with a feisty two year old does you know good, but get you frustrated!

Weston welcoming home his older sibling with a squeeze

*Punctuality is KEY when picking up your kids from school. I was early the first day and it was TOO early. Yesterday I picked them up 2 minutes late and I was reprimanded by the office. Jeesh!

*Finally understanding how to take in and out pads for football. They need a how to for dummies on these things.

*Afternoon showers cause football to end an hour early. I love rain!

*How good friends know when to drop stuff off and make your day. Angie hand delivered some creamy jalapeño with chips this afternoon with some peanut butter m&m's. Yum!

*The grocery store at 10am is the way to go. It's not crowded and actually quite pleasant.

*Explaining to Jared that working hard at practice allows you more playing time. He had his best practice yet last night (hmmm...why? because he did his 100%)

*Enjoy and appreciate when Doug's around. I can honestly say that we have grown closer because of his hectic schedule. I know the month of July he was around a lot, but now I appreciate the small amounts of time he is around even more. Who am I kidding I am crazy about this guy and am thankful for having such a strong happy marriage!

good deed: made Doug some homemade salsa.

Just When Mom Agrees

I know some of you aren't animal lovers. I for one do not enjoy cats, dogs I tolerate. Doug has been talking about getting a dog for a few years. The discussion has always been the same, him saying, "come on all kids need a dog" My response, "N-O!" with a capital N. I told him that it was just too much to add another "addition" to our home. Don't we already have 4 responsibilities?? And another thing, guess who would be the primary care giver of this animal?--me, mom. So, after much debating, listing the pros and cons AND Weston getting potty trained the dog issue arose once again. Mind you, this is also about the time in our lives we are used to welcoming in another baby into our family. Since that will not be occurring we did some research and agreed that a blonde lab would soot our family well. He could go through the teething/chewing stage at our house right now and have outgrown it by the time we move. I even made the excuse that since my loyal walking partner was moving in a few months, I would have another "friend" to tag along with me. We went and looked at one of them on Sunday. Instant love all around. The deal was done, set, closed. Until....we discovered our biggest dog fan of all is allergic to these types of dogs. We thought it was the grass until I did a trial run at my friends house today. I simply just had him touch their lab and got into my car without washing his hands. I became optimistic, then 15 minutes went by. His nose becomes a faucet, his skin became severely itchy, and his eyes became red, puffy/swollen. It is SO sad. Sad for Weston (who loves these dogs) and sad for our family. I know most of you would say this is a blessing in disguise and why even consider a responsibility? Well, the key to it all was I, the mom of all people agreed to this. I geared myself up for my backyard to become distroyed--all for the cause. Part of me can't help but being crushed. I know there are several hypoallergenic dogs out there, it's just when you have your mind set on a certain breed it's hard to be open minded. I have done some research, but for now I think we will be holding off. I guess we won't be having any "doggy" showers afterall. (sigh).


good deed: watched Maryn while Angie went to the temple.

Primary Style

I am not much of a scriptorian or claim to be. The scriptures always tend to be a weakness reading and explaining. As a family we set a goal last July to read the BofM every night. We decided evenings worked out best for our family. Anyways, vacations came and went, school activities, etc. We pretty much suck at a routine day in and day out feast of scriptures. A few weeks ago we jumped back in, it was going good and we were diligent. Well, then Doug's fellowship began which really leaves pretty much dad out of the picture until my kids are in dreamland (or supposed to be). I tried to break out the scriptures during dinner, (when the kids are chewing they are MUCH quieter) but found myself just reading to be reading. We weren't even understanding what we were reading. So, I decided to try another route. Go easy, primary style. I know there is a great study book--(colored photos and all) out that helps you read with your kids, I just haven't got around to getting it.

Taylor really enjoys reading the Friend and the minute it comes in the mail it mysteriously vanishes off of the mail pile and into her room. I decided since they enjoy those stories so much and they seem to always have a scripture or message behind them, to read a story out of it each night. Granted there aren't very many, but we have a stash of them in the magazine rack collecting dust.

good deed: FINALLY went and got doug a razor.

I Heart Edward

Eclipse
Book Review #5

It's obvious the Stephenie Meyer's vampire series of books have gone "wild" especially in the LDS bubble world. After hearing about this series (I jumped in late-from which I heard was a good thing) I read Twilight, New Moon, and the last of the series thus far, Eclipse. I'll admit I am one of the Edward fans. To most, you would say gag me with a spoon. He's much to controlling, TOO old for Bella, and seems to be too *good* to be true. After all who waits around for a century to find love? And an 17-year-old at that? Especially when there were plenty other vampire girls who would have had him in a second back in the day. However, I am not sure if it's the description of looks, his smooth talking, (what's velvet language?) his ability to control temptation or his "sweet" breath. He also always knows what to say. Is he really not jealous or just a very patient person. If I were him, Bella would completely WEAR me out. Much too whiny and high maintenance. BUT, I am head over Edward end of story. And his family for that matter. Who wouldn't love Alice as a personal wardrobe shopper and party planner? A doctor in the family also has it's perks and a handsome one at that. I also enjoyed how Meyer's took the time to go through each one of the Cullen's and how they became a vampire and why. It reminded much of the Potter series how Rowling went into detail with each character.

Jacob completely bugs, and for really all I care he could have passed in the "war" in the end. I found myself completely skimming the werewolf history and was rather bored by it. (unlike my husband who liked it) Imprinting sorta was bizzare in my book. Wasn't it Sam who imprinted a 2 year old? Hello?? Yuck. You knew Jacob wouldn't die, after all Edward does need SOME sort of competition. Bella isn't going to play hard to get so what else is left? He is much too aggressive for my taste and who wants to kiss a fur ball? I do honor his love he has for Bella though. Despite, his not so tempting qualities he does love Bella and looks out for the best of her interest. I'll give him that much.

I think it was also very clear from even the first book Bella would stay with Edward until the end no matter what. It will be interesting to see what lies in store for them, the wedding, Dartmouth, and will she REALLY become a vampire? I think that Meyer's could drag this out for a while. Yet another reason to keep writing eh? Some theories that I have been discussing with others are if Bella stays human can they have kids? Is the reason her mother and father separated because her mom is vampire and her dad part werewolf. I realize Bella would not exist if that were the case, but what if her parents *chose* this after Bella? I only say these things because I think it's odd that Edward is unable to read her thoughts like he can everyone else. Definitely something to think about.

On a last note, I understand that the cover of Twilight was due to "good and evil" and represented the garden of eden. So what does the flower on New Moon represent? White for werewolf's (aka the moon color) and red for vampires? And lastly, the cover of Eclipse with the torn ribbon means?? My first thoughts were the red ribbon she saw in Italy back in new moon. Remember the dancing and the parades representing the vampires since this WILL most likely be her future? It's definitely intriguing....if anyone has read this I would be interested to discuss your thoughts. I did enjoy all three, but like most Twilight is still my favorite of the series.

Anticipation

entry way and art clip board

We did our last minute preparations for school yesterday. The swim bags were replaced with school bags, and the art hooks remain empty waiting for new *master* pieces. We did the traditional priesthood blessings given by dad, followed by laying out the *perfect* outfit, shoes, and assembly line of lunches. My kids woke up at 5:30am this morning. What in the world!? I was excited for them to go to school but not THAT excited. I finally rolled out of bed around 6:15am to make our ritual pancakes for Monday morning. They scarfed them down and we headed out the door.

Jared & Taylor
on the bench in front of the library

I walked the older kids to their classrooms. They really didn't want me to since they *know* the school all to well, and they are the old timers so to speak. But, I insisted since it was the first day of school and I wanted to make sure their transportation was correctly set. They will be riding the bus home today and then for the next two months I will be picking them up because of Taylor's obligation to safety patrol. I managed to snap a quick shot of them in the front hallway.

Ms. Sheila and Luke
K.D.O.

Luke's preschool started about an hour later and he was all smiles and very excited. It didn't take him long to dig right into playing at the centers. Now, it's just me and Weston hanging out. I have already cleaned bathrooms, mopped, and vacuumed. I was overly giddy that my house would remain the way it was for at least a few extra hours. And just look, Weston and I are now sharing some good quality cereal time together. I still have 4 more hours to play. I have been anticipating this day for a few weeks and now that it is here what to do, what to do?? I'm certain I will find something......

good deed Sunday: did some dog researching.
good deed: left a message with one sister I was visiting teaching.

An Extra Bead of Sweat

I decided to set a goal for myself this morning and try and run 4 miles. I haven't gone an "extra" 1.5 miles in a long while. You see I don't really enjoy running, but it seems to be one of those things I can't seem to stop. I don't know if addictive is the word? Or just self discipline. I am coming up to the two year mark of exercise in a few weeks. It's hard to believe before that I NEVER did any form of cardio.


As I began running, I promised myself if I was feeling okay after mile marker 1 I would continue up the road and not take the short cut way.(which is my normal route) I proceeded up the slightly inclined road surprisingly with much ease. It couldn't have been a more perfect setting, no kids, the sun on my face, jamming out to my tunes and clearing my head all at once. The only frightening thing was the road I was running on is pretty remote. The kind that deer live in (woodsy setting if you will)--I couldn't help but fear snakes jumping out. Luckily, no incidences occurred.

As I came up to my 2 mile. It hit me like a brick. The dreaded runner's wall. The one where you feel like a thousand individuals are pulling at you. I forced myself to keep going. I began running a tad slower, just so I could keep moving. As I was struggling this spot on my run, I couldn't help but think how much of my struggles are mind over matter. If we set our minds to do something hard or not....we can if we want to! My pace may have been about 1 minute slower than normal, (for running that's huge!) but the important thing was not the time I finished in, but that I accomplished what I set out to do. That extra few songs on my ipod and extra beads of sweat were worth it. I finished 4 miles in 41 minutes--woo hoo!

one of the streets I have ran on before

It then occurred to me that if I took my day just one minute slower, my days would probably be more enjoyable. Things may not all get done. Heck, I may even read another book! But isn't that okay? Oh, and speaking of books..... my 5th review is coming up. I finished Eclipse today and it was fabulous!

good deed: gave someone a rubberband for their littles hair (long story)

Touch of Hairspray

"Gracie" braid
(we named this after one of her friends who used to do this to her hair)

(Taylor 6 years)

I have always been jealous of my friends who went to beauty school. My parents insisted on college (which I am grateful for--I do have a degree because of it). Beauty School wasn't even an option at the time. However thinking back, I do remember having sleep overs where my friends and I would play salon. I love it when someone just sits and brushes my hair. Styling *it* is just an added bonus. I have been the "hair" person in my family for as long as I can remember. Growing up every time there were family portraits or special events, I was the "go to" stylist. I even did my brother's hair. I am not sure if my mom didn't like doing it, or she realized I could do it better? Fortunately, I learned around the age of 11 to french braid. It did take me a while to learn. The first several tries I remember it being loose and sloppy. I was lucky enough to have a sister who had long hair and often practiced on. I am sure it bugged Janet. I think I recall her saying not to long ago how I would pull her hair and yell at her to hold still. (you have to pull to make it tight!) But, it was fun to have my personal own "real" Barbie doll to work my magic on.

Due to the Louisiana heat I did this to Taylor's hair
all 4 years for Mardi Gras
(2 years old)

Little did I know when I got married and had a daughter that I would continue to love to do hair. I used to look through magazines and oooh and ahhh over the wacky, different hair styles that people would do on little kids. The funkier the better! Once Taylor's hair was long enough (around 2) I began braiding it. I am lucky that Taylor still allows me to do her hair. By her age I wouldn't even let my mom come near me with a ten foot pole! Most of the time I stick with the simple pony tail or half way up do. And sometimes we get a little creative.........

the view from the top

As I was checking blogs the other day I couldn't help but notice Hannah's hair. I called Allison instantly to ask her who had done it. She said she got it done in Utah for $2.50 at a beauty school. What? I want my hair done for that price. Unheard of. I knew that wasn't going to find that here around my town so, I decided to try it myself. And, I must say I think I did a pretty good "copy" job at it. All from a photo.

side view

Much to my surprise it only took about 30 minutes. (at the same time we watched a little animal planet) Taylor has already asked how long it would stay in. Hmmm.....I am hoping it lasts a little longer than over night. I added a touch of hairspray just in case. She was pretty pleased with the results and has already placed a request for it on a future school day. Not to shabby eh?

**Do you like to do hair?**

good deed: read from the Friend to my kids.

P-A-I-N-F-U-L

this is the largest rainbow I have ever seen!

The beauty of the English language is that one word can have several different meanings. I am sure for a foreigner it would be extremely difficult to learn. How confusing would it be to learn the different spellings of their, or there? I remember it even being hard growing up. English is definitely not my strongest subject. However, I CAN describe my week with one word and have it mean a trillion different things.

my shoes safely under the stroller

Our weather has been so unpredictable lately. (see above and below) I have no idea why we are getting such odd weather patterns, but we are. Over the past few weeks we have woken up to cloudy mornings (which are perfect for exercise) no complaints there! Angie and I have been fairly lucky not to get caught up into many rain encounters, except once. Until yesterday, make that two. We started walking and it began to sprinkle. Sprinkles we can handle. Rain forest, Jamanji rain not so fun. We stopped under a tree hoping it would pass (since we were well in route). It didn't seem to want to stop. We were in a major dilemma of sorts. First our kids had no form of protection. Why haven't I bought one of those covers yet?? Second, both of us just bought brand new running shoes, and NOT cheap ones. Ones that really should sit on a shelf to admire. Neither of us wanted to get them wet because of that very reason. What to do? Ah ha, take them off and run barefoot. Okay, that sounds extremely dumb, but that is what we did all for the sake of new shoes! And yes, it was PAINFUL. Probably pretty stupid, especially since we are married to orthopedics's (who would cringe over that). We can laugh about it now and if only I had my camera. Luckily Greg was still home and saved us at the end of the road with a ride home. Don't worry next time it looks dark with rain, I will be slipping on my OLD shoes AND my kids will have a cover.

errie photo taken last week in my car.

This week has been dragging for me. I don't know if it's the anticipation for my kids to go to school or what. I am ready and they are ready period. One thing that is hard for me is the whining. It is much like finger nails on a chalk board. PAINFUL! My kids have been doing this ALL week....and I am not exaggerating. Lucky for me it is occurring at different times throughout each day. Ha. I already discussed my doctor experience Monday, painful. Weston has continued to make a routine of pooping each day, lovely. Jared had his moment of glory yesterday. (I had a mommy dearest moment with him) Taylor doesn't have too many painful moments, unless it entails dragging her somewhere she absolutely is opposed too. Like the other day. It ended in a full on argument (which I hate) I explained to her that we all needed to go to practice since this was the only time we would see Doug that day. Ummm, do you think I want to sit and watch football for two hours? It was a pretty big battle. Fortunately, candy and allowing her to text page did the trick. Yes, I am the mom that uses bribery.

kiddos on the pirate slide

My last painful experience hopefully(I am crossing my fingers) this week, was today. My kids have been wanting to go to Fiesta Texas all week. We have either been too booked up with things or the weather hasn't been on our side. I woke up with a major headache and the LEAST thing I wanted to do was trek to the water park. I told my kids if they got the bag and lunches ready we would go. We headed out in some pretty "skeptical" weather. It obviously had been raining pretty hard earlier, but had some blue skies around it. We proceeded through the rides and hiked up Mount Kilimanjaro--PAINFUL in the water park. The pirate ship and play area we normally let the kids go to is at the top (I will never understand why they did this) This means we are walking up 3-4 flights of stairs. For strollers there is a ramps, but since my boys have grown it seems in the past month, my old rickety double stroller (from when Jared was born) is EXTREMELY heavy and hard to control. But, we successfully made it up one last time. I say this because today was the last day we will probably be heading out to the water park for the summer. Friday is the last "week" day the park will be open, and I don't foresee going on a weekend due to the crowds. Here's to a less painful week ahead. Oh, and did I mention Luke wet the bed this morning??

good deed: did taylor's hair groovy.

Musings of the Week

It's obvious by now that I have gone to a private blog. Without going on and on about it, I just wanted to say I did it for a few reasons. First was a precautionary measure (which I already told many of you via email or phone). I haven't had a reason to worry or be concerned, but I didn't want to give anyone a reason either. Blogging has gotten much bigger than I ever dreamed. That isn't a bad thing, but more of a time issue (for me anyways). On one hand I love to read and have learned to get to know so many of you and your families. But really a person can only get to "know" so many. (I don't mean that in a snotty way) There are several of you I am comfortable with, I "know" who you are. To be honest, that was really who I expected to receive emails from. Oddly, I have gotten several people whom I have never seen or even heard of. That kinda weirded me out a bit. These individuals claim to love reading about my life and have for several months. Why in the world would you invest your free time and not even bother to email or make a comment? I will never understand. Anyways, I think I have emailed most everyone that would wonder where I was, or even care to know. Here's to a little more freedom (possibly more skin j/k) and I won't worry as much about posting about my kids schools, other friend faces, etc. Enough of that!

Luke finally "okay" after mom calmed him down

Monday I took Luke to the doctor. I have been dreading this day since he was 2. Fortunately, he is a very healthy child and I haven't had to take him in for anything other than shots. If you know Luke he is my one child who is afraid of EVERYTHING, doctors included. You would think having a dad as one would help. No such luck. I spared telling him where we were going that morning just to avoid any screaming fits. (remember the dentist visit) The cat let out of the bag when they called his name to go back into the patient room. Let me just say, I think the people across the street could have heard him screaming. I patiently grabbed his arm and held my hand over his mouth with the other hand. Meanwhile getting many looks and several gawks. He was having a major panic attack. I assured him they were just going to weigh him and look at his ears, etc. After much persuasion we calmed him down. Surprisingly, he did okay when the PA came in. He then asked if it was time to go, I informed him that "one" more guy had to come in and look at his legs. Reluctantly, he laid on the bed. His eyes got sad when he saw the three shots. It was so sad, he said "mom I am getting shots too?" I said only a couple and then you are done. He did so good, and by the end of the day he was showing everyone his "war" wounds with the band aids. I am just relieved no more shots until he turns 12! If it were any sooner, I don't know what I would do. In other news.............

About a year ago we had a huge frog (like the one above) that lived happily in our back yard. I normally move the hose, slide, etc out of the way before I mow. I knew, lets call him "Fred" lived by the hose. I made a mental note of it. I was even cautious when I came around his "home" Once I came to the spot where "Fred" lived I didn't see him, which I thought meant he went under ground. Wrongo! I ran over Fred with the mower. I was completely freaked out. Chills ran up and down my spine. I killed one of Heavenly Father's creatures. I mean this was a HUGE frog. I had to convince myself to dump the grass mixed with Fred into the trash and proceed to clean off my back window. Yes, it SPLATTERED. Sorry for the graphic image. I was labeled the frog murderer by Doug (and my kids for that matter). Well, I had forgotten about "Fred" until yesterday. I was surprised to see another relative maybe? Happily hopping around my yard. I was so amazed I had Taylor take a picture of this guy. Don't worry I didn't kill "Frank" he is still alive and well. I am hoping I can change my image of my previous murder status and keep him around a while :)

good deed Tuesday: emailed customer service and left a nice note.
good deed: Let the kids have friends over.

Jumping The Band Wagon

I've thought it over and feel it's time for me to go private as well. Please email me at this address: jumpingbandwagon@yahoo.com if you want me to add you to the list. Thanks!

Nice Award

It is for "those bloggers who are nice people; good blog friends & those who inspire good feelings and inspiration. Also for those who are a positive influence on our blogging world. Once you've been awarded please pass it on to 7 others who you feel are deserving of this award."

Since I was awarded twice, (once by Lucy and then by Donna) I think it's my return to pass the nice "blog award" on to 7 more fellow bloggers. I do read more than 7, so it was difficult to narrow down my choices. I more than likely would tag these two ladies back (but they already picked on another) Here are my picks, in no particular order............


Becca- I enjoy reading her blog for several reasons. She has such a love and excitement for life. She is always such a positive person and expresses how important her family is to her.

Kelly-She just has a way of writing that keeps you intrigued. She has the ability to make the worst situation so funny. The meat story (do I need to say more?). She also started a fun "five for Friday"--always a treat to read. I think that shows you what type of individual she is. She also has 4 cute little girls with the BEST hair.

Laurie-Is so inspiring. She always seems to be spiritually in tune. She is constantly trying to better herself in so many ways and has a lot of great ideas for little kids. She also has the most creative birthday posts that are enjoyable to read.

Amy M.-She could seriously just post a photo and it would be amazing. Amy has the ability and creativity to take her photos and use them into words. You can guarantee you won't ever see a bad photo clicking on her blog.

Barb-She is just funny and it shows just by reading. I love reading hers because she does so many great things with her kids (like the best lemonade stand I have ever seen) and really has the best self portrait photos.

Chanel-She is not only a dear friend but has the best creative ideas. (I am just glad she now has a blog to display them!) She continues to inspire me to be a good mom, does so many fun things with her kids, and keeps my sewing juices flowing!

Jill-I think most all of us can agree upon this one. She is the mother of blogging, who started good mail. I think what draws me in mostly is her down to earth life, her wit, and she is human like the rest of us. You can always count on honesty from Jill!

Although I only know one of these women very well and have met another briefly I can't seem to stop reading any of these blogs. I could list several more, but these are the 7 that come to mind. And umm it looks like I like to say "best" a lot. I guess I have ran out of descriptive words. I think it's time for a thesaurus. Thanks for so much kindness and inspiration.


good deed: was VERY patient with Luke at the doctor today.

Golfing Lesson 1

I come from a history of golfers in my family. For starters, ever since I was very small I can remember my dad going golfing. It was a social event. He would go with old friends, work people and other family members. He even likes golf enough to name pets after them! We used to have a Bogie golden retriever, and now he has a lab named Putty. Doug has also enjoyed a game of golf as long as I have known him. I often thought he was crazy to borrow his mom's Cadialac just for the look driving up to a golf course. He is such a nerd! I don't think there is a sport out there that he doesn't like. This year he has made it a goal to bring back his hobbies. After slaving 5 years of pure medicine, he has forgotten how to "have fun" Golfing is one of those goals. Yesterday when he asked me if I wanted to join him to hit a bucket of balls, I have to admit it really didn't sound appealing. I am absolutely clueless about it and well, me and sports don't mix. You would think living in AZ I would catch the golf bug. Hello I am 32, so nope not yet. Yesterday, I decided to give it a try. And you know it wasn't too bad! Obviously there is no way I could play nine holes without some major practice, but it's a start.

I had no idea I was being filmed.
Note to self: straighten my arm!

I can already tell my swing in the above photo is a big no-no. The advantage to having a well-rounded sport guy around is his ability to teach you things. Holding the club properly is a challenge in it of itself. Add that with the proper swing and it is VERY hard. I managed to hit a few balls, but nothing fabulous. I will say it was fun just to hang out even if it was only 40 minutes. The golf course is so quiet and peaceful. All you hear is the birds chirping, which by the end of yesterday listening to my house of noise was pure bliss. Who knows we may have found a sport to do together like these guys.

Today was stake conference and what I would have done to be back on that peaceful golf course. I tried to take notes, but it was next to impossible. It is definitely challenging to sit and listen with my littles. I know it will someday pass, but for now it's just hard. I did manage to get one thing out of the talks today which really hit home. So, I leave with one message. One of the speakers said that we as parents say harsh words we often later regret. (I think that says me written all over it!) It often is harder for them to forget those words sometimes. They often leave an imprint on their minds. Make sure we take time to praise our children EACH and everyday and tell them we love them always.


good deed: took notes in church

Boy's Paradise

I had heard from a friend that the Bass Pro-Shop does embroidery. Since I don't have access to such a machine I headed out this morning to take in the kids school backpacks. I noticed pulling up in the parking lot, I was the only one not driving a truck. It's definitely a sportsmen (boys) paradise. I never understood the ordeal of this store until setting foot inside. I have been there a few times before, but never with my kids. They have things from hunting, fishing, skiing, camping, you name it, they have it.

peering into the huge fish tank

Weston was so excited about the huge fish tank. Seriously these fish were almost as big as him. During our visit they were doing a "how-to" fish lesson. It actually was pretty interesting. (I know absolutely nothing about fishing).

Nascar section

They also have a entire section for Nascar. Who knew there were more than two fans out there in the Nascar world?--hee hee. This one is for you Anne and Sammy! You can actually pay to ride in one of the cars, but due to the ridiculous price, I passed on the offer. I did allow my kids to climb the rock wall. I was surprised at how brave Jared was, he came so close to the top but then gave up. You could see the look in Doug's eyes how excited he was to see all of the "toys" they had in the store. It also brought back good memories for him to see rock climbing. Him and his roommates would do this in Utah on the weekends back in the day. Having three boys, I am sure they will be getting plenty of our business in the future.

Jared almost to the top.

Taylor got up about half way and fell back. The funny thing was during their climb Luke was burying his head on my lap, saying "I can't watch it's too scwary." The rest of the day has been pretty uneventful, which in my opinion tends to result in some interesting things. While organizing some papers we found some old albums of Doug's younger years. If you know my husband when this happens the "jokster" Doug comes out. He decided to show Jared some football moves and to do that, you have to dress out. Look out fantasy football here comes "Broken Bones!!"

Very intimidating :)

good deed: took the kids to Sonic for treats.

What Time Is It?

preparing and improvising the cake

I can't seem to stop singing the opening song, "What Time Is It?" Well, if you don't know what time it is, today is the big debut of High School Musical 2. After Monday not being a "so-good" mom day. I decided to turn it around and suggested that it would be fun to have a High School Musial party for Taylor and a few of her friends. It has been the hype of the summer and I secretly couldn't resist. We are huge fans of the first one, and I can almost guarantee the 2nd will be the same way. Preparations were going on throughout the week. Taylor requested a cake with specific instructions. I got the cake made, bought the frosting and right as I was going to decorate it I realized I didn't have any cake bags or tips. I called a few neighbors but no such luck. I improvised and used our medicine syringes. They worked like a charm!

Taylor also wanted to go all out, and I couldn't hold back on this one. She has been extremely helpful and literally saved me on several occasions over the summer. We headed out to our nearest Party City and picked up the last of the plates, napkins and tablecloth. I have to admit it turned out pretty cute.

Since Kelly (we need a raincheck) couldn't make it due to a psyched out weather forecast (they said it was suppose to be like yesterday and we didn't get a drop of rain!) Our family headed out for an early dinner before the show started to Chuy's. I think this has become our assigned booth in the restaurant. We have sat in this specific booth the last three times we have eaten there. It works out great and a perfect size for our family.

The girls trickled in around 7pm and thanks to our DVR we waited to start it once everyone arrived. One of her friends even bought Taylor the new cd. I am sure it will get lots of playing time. I am already planning to download it to my ipod.

The High School Cover Pose!

We broke out the popcorn, soda, cake and ice-cream during the commercial. I think it was a hit. The girls are currently sitting enjoying the movie. I have decided 10 is a fun age and I am wishing we had a few more of these throughout the summer. Hope everyone had a great Friday!

Nicole, Taylor, Meli, Mackenzi, Brittany, and Ariel

good deed: had a party for Taylor. (I guess I can be fun when I want to)

Wizards, Vampires, Werewolves, Oh My!

For those of you who know me or even read my daily saga probably have figured out that I am not much of a reader. I do admire all of those who read so many books in so little time. I just never make the time or can sit still enough to get through one. I think reading is essential, you gain more knowledge, it expands the mind and allows your brain to exercise. My husband and daughter have this desire to read, me not so much. But........if I find the right read I become engrossed and can't seem to stop. This may in fact be my very first book review and since I don't have a great retention of anything I read, what better to do than blog about it? I think I have set my record of reading for an entire 5 years. Woo hoo for me! Over the past 5 weeks I have read 3 books. All of which I can highly recommend.

I would have to say that J.K. Rowling did a fabulous job in summing up all of her books. I thought it was genius how she incorporated several characters all the way back from the first one. I even had to go back and check on names to see who they were. I am horrible about remembering past characters. Perhaps I should go back and read them again? I found myself on the edge of my seat the entire 700 pages. The twist about Severus Snape was another surprise and kept me wondering until the very end. I expected more main characters to die. I found myself more saddened by Fred, but the others not so much. I also thought it was good (and she owed the readers) an epilogue as to what Harry was doing in the future. I do however think this left it open for another series or ghost writers to follow. Overall, two thumbs up!

After several oooo's and ahhhh's about this book. (my niece has read it 3 times!) I convinced myself to pick it up, purely to see what the hype was all about. It did not disapoint. I found myself wanting to live in Forks myself (which would not be like me--I hate gloomy climates!) and even considered myself to become a vampire. Meyers did a good job of sucking me in and I think I can honestly say I had some butterflies over Edward. What in the world?? Even though some of the conversation and infatuation between Bella and Edward were cheesy, I found myself engrossed in their love affair. Of course the end left me hanging and wanting more.........which leads me into.....


I heard mixed reviews on this one. I have to say like many it wasn't as good of a read as the first. I think we all know the reason (if you have read it) Edward didn't play a major role in this one until the very end. Once he came back into the picture I couldn't put it down. I would have to say I liked Jacob, but I can't say I was sold on becoming one of his pack. There is just something more romantic about the Cullen's than the Quileute's. Is it the sweet smell? The icy cold skin? I guess I will have to find out for myself in Eclipse. I am beginning to think we need an online blogger book club. I think I could even find myself reading these again--so not like me.

**Have you read any of these books?**
**Thoughts?**

River Rats

Jared, Mackenzi, Taylor and Maci
Out in 100+ temperatures!

Yesterday after a week long of BEGGING and persuasion I caved and allowed the kids to have a Kool-Aid stand. They made their own sign, I got the drinks ready and Angie provided the ice and cups. I explained to them that I wasn't going to help them go through all the work for them to be out there for 15 minutes. In the past no matter what the activity, they normally complain about the heat or whatever to come back inside. They set up shop and I have to admit I was definitely proven wrong. They ended up going around the neighborhood advertising their goods and selling $10 worth of drinks. Impressive! And..... stayed outside for 2 hours. Nice. You couldn't have paid me to sit out there in the scorching temps! Hey and just look our black table found another use.

Driving on my street.
Look how high the water is!

Today couldn't have been more opposite. Due to Tropical Storm Erin hitting Corpus Christi yesterday it has decided to park itself right over San Antonio. We have literally gotten dumped on with rain today. Luckily we didn't have too many outings today. Driving in the rain and getting in and out of a car with 4 kids just isn't a good combination. My friend who cuts our hair happens to live just down the street and was able to trim Taylor's hair at the last minute.

Taylor's new haircut

Our weather has certainly been strange today. There are moments when sheets and sheets of rain come down. My kids thought it was pure bliss to run out in it. No thanks! As you can see it is up to their ankles just on our street. Crazy! I really can't complain about the rain because my grass was becoming a bit crunchy so I welcomed it with open arms :)

Within just a few minutes, seriously it let up and the sun broke through the clouds. Bizzare. The little boys seemed to brave out on the street once the rain stopped. Luke's comment was so funny today. When we opened the garage he said with excitement, "Mom oh my gosh look there is a wiver in front of our house!" Who needs a pool or any other form of entertainment when you have puddles to run through?

running through the river in the front yard

The big finale of SYTYCD is on, I am beyond excited for 7pm to come. And in other news, Kelly A. has decided to take a spontaneous day trip to San Antonio for Chuy's. Hopefully the weather will cooperate so we can enjoy a nice visit. Should be fun!

good deed: read scriptures with the kids.